{"id":110,"date":"2021-01-25T11:05:09","date_gmt":"2021-01-25T16:05:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/?p=110"},"modified":"2021-04-08T01:12:06","modified_gmt":"2021-04-08T05:12:06","slug":"calling-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/?p=110","title":{"rendered":"“Calling In”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I needed this article today …. a different lens, a road to healing and growth….<\/div>\n
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What if Instead of Calling People Out, We Called Them In?<\/a><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n

Prof. Loretta J. Ross is combating cancel culture with a popular class at Smith College.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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“The antidote to that outrage cycle, Professor Ross believes, is \u201ccalling in.\u201d Calling in is like calling out, but done privately and with respect. \u201cIt\u2019s a call out done with love,\u201d she said. “<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n
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Spoiler alert if you can’t read the whole thing – here is the ending…<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u201cYou can\u2019t be responsible for someone else\u2019s inability to grow,\u201d Professor Ross said. \u201cSo take comfort in the fact that you offered a new perspective of information and you did so with love and respect, and then you walk away.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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\u201cWe have a saying in the movement: Some people you can work with and some people you can work around. But the thing that I want to emphasize is that the calling-in practice means you always keep a seat at the table for them if they come back.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n
This is something I continue to need to reflect up and practice. I realize this practice will take courage and a lot of effort and it will be exhausting. My kids are my motivator for continually working towards being a better me and growing. This professor is also an inspiration.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I needed this article today …. a different lens, a road to healing and growth…. What if Instead of Calling People Out, We Called Them In? Prof. Loretta J. Ross is combating cancel culture with a popular class at Smith College. “The antidote to that outrage cycle, Professor Ross believes, is \u201ccalling in.\u201d Calling in […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=110"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carinsbeautifulworld.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}